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Name(s) and Definition(s)

Yanderegender incorrectly referred to as/renamed to Lovesickgender by LGBTA Wiki user Keterodyne1 is a Fictigender (as well as an Aerogender, Feeligender, Relatiogender, Orientationgender, and Personagender in the redefinition) that's likely defined as "A gender related the yandere trope/yandere characters," though it was undefined at its coining.

It was redefined as "a term that is used for when your gender is highly connected to your romantic/sexual/platonic/etc attraction. One can feel as though their gender is an obsessive part of their love, and the more they are attracted, the more bold, loud, and extravagant their gender becomes. It could be used as a gender on its own, or a co-term. (yanderegirl, yandereboy, yandereNon-Binary, etc)"2


Coining and Definition History

Yanderegender was coined on June 19, 2018, by an anonymous individual via likely troll Tumblr blog All-Prides-Matter.3 It is unknown whether or not this individual was also trolling.

It was redefined on October 24, 2020, by a user of the LGBTA Wiki account Cryptocrew.4

Flag and Symbol History

The flag was made by likely troll Tumblr user All-Prides-Matter on June 19, 2018.5

As of June 13, 2022, Yanderegender doesn't have a symbol.


The etymology of Yanderegender was never posted.

Suggested Pronouns

Yanderegender doesn't have any suggested pronouns.

Related Genders


This gender doesn't have any subsets

Similar or Otherwise Related Genders


Original Flag, Redesigns, and Symbol(s)


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